Good afternoon, ladies & gentlemen! It’s just the first few days of November but
the sun is still shining & so far there is no snow in sight. However, I
hear it’s not the same in Calgary, Alberta. I hear Mother Nature is taking her
wrath out on them. You poor folks that live down there! I hope you all have a
nice warm parka. Our Canadian winters can be awfully unforgiving.
On a sad note
I have been unfortunate enough to catch a cold but that’s what happens when
someone else shows up to work with a cold. Like a catchy tune it tends to catch
on with everyone else. At least I had a day off work after I caught it. It’s
nice to relax & allow myself to be sick. Before you go telling me that if I
was truly sick I would be laying down in bed right now, I’m just going to
remind you that typing for you folks is not considered ‘hard work’ to me. Also,
I took a shower this morning so needless to say that woke me up rather quickly.
I suppose I won’t be posting daily considering I missed
yesterdays post but after I got off work I just went to straight to bed. So I
apologize if you were hoping for a post & didn’t receive one! I will try to
fit two posts in one for you. & thank you for 4 page views already! That is
an incredible success for me!
So for today, I would like to discuss what I call ‘kid-catering’:
where parents cater to their kids. I find it quite common in our society today
& I don’t really quite understand it. I don’t have kids of my own but I
have babysat a lot of cute children & I don’t understand why some parents treat
their households like a restaurant. ‘Oh you don’t want your vegetables, Billy?
Would you like a grilled cheese & some soda pop instead?’ While some would
argue that grilled cheese sandwiches are healthy I’d like to point out that
unless you serving whole wheat bread & real brick cheese, you’re simply putting
processed materials into their stomachs, which – if I have read all the
material correctly – has been linked to diabetes & obesity in persons of
all ages. I don’t see a lot of kids these days asking for whole wheat bread.
I understand that when a kid starts whining & hollering
it gets very annoying & most parents just want to make it stop because nobody
likes to hear their children cry. Yes, it is a simple fix & I would
probably resort to the same thing every now & then. I just don’t understand
why you don’t strike a compromise. ‘You don’t want your vegetables, Billy? If I
make you a grilled cheese you have to promise mother that you will clean up all
of your toys after you’re finished eating.’ Easier said than done & its
highly likely the kid will eat the grilled cheese & then end up making even
more of a mess rather than sticking to the agreement. I’m sure most don’t even
understand what an agreement is.
Growing up I was never really catered to. I got fed what was
put on my plate & that was what we were having. There was no arguing, there
was no giving in but there was compromise. ‘Just two more bites of your
potatoes & three more of your ham.’ It wasn’t meant to be mean, it was them
trying to teach me to appreciate that I even have food. Wouldn’t you agree that
people are more focused on the things that they lack rather than what they have
gained? I would have to blame it on consumerism.
I suppose the question I am asking you readers is this: Is
it ever okay to cater to a child requests & if not, in what situation would
it be okay?
Signing off for now! Have a great day.
-T.A.B (:
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